Tuesday, 18 May 2010

quietly still here.....

Hi everyone, just a quickie to say we are still here and every now and then I try and catch up with my favourite blogs but like so many others we have been spending less and less time on the computer and more time playing, planting, and being a family. A while ago I spent a very long time writing out a post that went on about things that I was worried about or pondered on at the time but then just as I was about to post it something happened to our family that literally rocked our world and still now I am struggling to come to terms with how cruel and insensitive some people can be. I really can't go into all the pain and heartache right now but needless to say I haven't spoken to my mum or sister since and I have to say I do feel a sense of relief from them not being in my life. I think sometimes people/ family bring negativity and chaos into your life and its hard to keep being polite. Anyway, on a more positive and happy note, we've been busy enjoying the lovely spring sunshine and planting lots of veg and fruit bushes...mmm.


Becks said...

(((Hugs))) for you all Sue.
I know it's not the given advice but blood is not always thicker than water. If you need a break from your family then so be it. You do what you need to do. You really don't need to have any negativity heaped upon you, no matter how close the heaper purports to be.
From someone who has been there. And still is.

Daisie said...

Family can be difficult, we have issues with our parents and siblings too but after years of worry and angst I have come to the conclusion that the only real family members I have are those that live under my roof! I hope you are soon mended from this hard time xxx